REMEMBER THIS STORY : –
A young man saw a woman he thought she was extremely cute. She was simply walking around and was involved with her own things.
“I should speak to her,” he told himself.
But his body would not obey. He stood there, watching her in the corner of his eye. She eventually left and he cursed himself .
Then appeared another woman who was even cuter!
“I should say hi,” he told himself. Yet, he stood like a statue and his body became numb. He thought “She is out of my league. She would never go for someone like me!” He never approached and the woman left. He cursed himself even more.
Another woman appeared more beautiful than the first two!
Somehow, he got himself to approach. “Hi!” he sputtered nervously. She was pleasant. He eventually asked for the number to which she said no. Even though he failed, he felt much better that he tried.
“Alas,” he said now realizing the error of his ways.
“Rejection is better than Regret”.
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If you see a beautiful girl , do not wait, gawk or wait for a ‘perfect moment’. Action”
We always think – “I don’t have that confidence!”
“You are confusing CAUSE and EFFECT. The CAUSE of your hesitant nature is not because of your insecurity.
You are caught in the vicious cycle. You are hesitant because you are not used for things going your way. And things will never go your way because you remain hesitant. You see what you want, become hesitant, and the door of opportunity closes. It happens again. And again. And again. With each choice towards Inaction, you reject yourself a little bit more.”
If there is a choice between less pain or the possibility of more pain, we default to the less pain.
In adolescence, going for a girl and failing made you think everyone else would laugh at you.
Childhood is over. You are the MAN. You must approach. Always default to Action now. From those of us who wasted years in that hesitation mode know that Rejection is always better than Regret. Always.
PrAts !
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I love the message here! Never be afraid! Always go after what you want regardless! Even if you do get rejected; at least you had the courage to do something!
Thanks #nEVERbEaFRAID _/